Wherever you go, there you are! This past week has been a mixture of good and not so good - and finding a life boat oar in the restaurant next to my hotel was a sign of good things to come! i was feeling a bit sorry for myself, eating alone and when i went to leave, i noticed this. sorry, kayla, it said, you don't get to be a loser and feel sorry for yourself. you have to be the kind of person that deserves to be on the boat. you get to go, it said. and i said to myself, you're darn right!